Acknowledgements: This story was submitted via the Contact Form on the Minnesota Hockey Magazine’s website by Jessa Preimesberger, a regional manager with Flag International, a global student exchange organization.  Additional information was provided by Maggie Vekich, a local coordinator with the same organization living in Minnesota and Jamie Nielsen, mom of the host family. Photos courtesy of  Jamie Nielsen.

It started with a love of hockey and ended with a moment that felt like fate.

My name is Jessa Preimesberger, and I am a Regional Manager with FLAG International, a nonprofit student exchange organization. Last year, we received an application from a student named Henri, a teenager from Germany. What made Henri unique was his passion for hockey, a sport not commonly played in his home country, but one he loved deeply.

As we learned more about his family, we discovered something interesting: Henri’s father had been an exchange student himself 38 years ago somewhere in northern Minnesota. The exact town was unclear, and the host family he had lived with had since passed away. There were no remaining ties to that event. Just memories.

One of our Local Coordinators, Maggie Vekich, who lives in the small Iron Range town of Bovey, felt strongly compelled to find Henri a host family in the area. She searched tirelessly across her region, driven by nothing more than intuition and hope.

Eventually, she found the Nielsen family in Bovey, MN.  The family immediately opened their home, excited to share their sport, their school, and their community. They had twin boys Henri’s age, Brayden and Bryce, and like Henri, hockey was their life. Henri was thrilled.

But nothing could have prepared him for what came next. When Henri received his school placement, he froze. He stared at the school name in disbelief.

It was Greenway High School. This was the exact same small, rural high school his father had attended as an exchange student 38 years earlier.

The same tiny school. The same tiny town. Two different host families. Two different generations. One incredible coincidence.

Without planning it. Without knowing it. Without any remaining connections tying them there, this small northern Minnesota community had welcomed both a father and his son, decades apart.

For Henri, it wasn’t just an exchange year anymore. It was a continuation of his father’s story.

Henri on his way with his dad to his first hockey game in Germany

Maggie continues – When placing Henri, all we knew was that his dad spent his exchange year in a small town of under a thousand people somewhere in Northern Minnesota. We didn’t know that it was Greenway until AFTER placing him with the Nielsen family!  

Henri reached out to Jamie (his host mom) and sent a picture of his dad’s letterman jacket from Greenway High School years ago – so you can imagine all of our shock and excitement when we realized he has been placed in the same exact small school as his father… not on purpose!

Henri arrived in Greenway on August 29^th, 2025.  He joined the football team in the fall (his dad had joined the football team and was the kicker while he was here at Greenway as well).

He was most excited to join the hockey team and indicated that it was quite a bit different from back home as he was in inline hockey there vs. ice hockey here. He said he was really excited to be part of a hockey enthusiastic family. 

His host mom, Jamie, adds that having twin host brothers share their love of the game really helped – we were able to make it to a couple of UMD Bulldog games, a couple World Junior games (USA against Germany being one of them and USA against Finland the other). They also attended the 7A & 7AA section finals games as well as the HS State games this year. You can ask him…but he may or may not say he’s “hockey’d out” for a bit, lol.

Henri, #35, same number as his dad when he played football for Greenway

Jamie continues that Henri has had a lot of firsts here.  Pretty much all the outdoor activities have been the first time for him: started out with his first day here on the pontoon, jet skiing and his try at water skiing.  Although hunting and fishing are not his favorite, he has participated and has experienced all these northland activities.

Maggie concludes that Henri became a GNK Titan when he first joined the football team as stated above. He then continued to play for the Raiders during hockey season – which was his childhood dream that came true because of the Nielsen’s. He truly got the best family to give him that MN experience

When I talk with Henri, all he talks about is how much he loves this community. He is truly so happy to be part of the Greenway community and wear the Titans/Raider gear. 

Final note: Henri is currently set to fly home to his family in Cologne, Germany on June 6^th.  He plans to attend college when he returns.  Truly a remarkable adventure Henri will remember fondly.

For more information on Flag International, check out their website at: 
https://www.flag-intl.org/

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Westley Chapel, Florida, Advent Health Center Ice Arena, April 3-6. 

The 50+ Northland Stars, coached by Roger Buck, who has won 15 National Championships dating back to 1984 in the good old and long gone Senior-A full-check days as coach of the powerful Bucks Unpainted Furniture team, defeated the Chicago Sharks 5-3 in the National championship game after a 4-team round robin series.

The 50+ Tier I teams were from Tampa, Duluth, Chicago and the MN Northland Stars.

The Roster included: 

Goalies: Jeff McMurchie and Mike Wilmo

Forwards: Glen Lang, Jeff Saterdalen, Pat Martin, Doug Wieck, Jason Francisco, Sterling Black, Jon Engfer,  Mike Beach, Danny Hendrickson, Sterling Black 

Defense: Steve Wendorf, Luke Johnson, Derek Cooper, Erick Hendrickson, Burke Stucker, Phil Neurer

Coach & Water Boy, trainer:  Roger Buck

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3-Generations, Paul, grandson Alex, son Mark (photo Paul Kill)

Ice Hockey is a fast and sometimes furious sport with lots of moving pieces. Without some law and order, chaos can quickly ensue.  Enter the puck (biscuit) droppers and the whistle blowers, in the literal sense of the word.  Often called Zebras or Stripes because of their attire, they rule the rink and ensure players follow the rules in this crazy, yet beautiful and exciting game on ice.

You don’t hear about or see many articles about officiating hockey and when you do, they are often imbedded in other hockey news or reports, tend to be negative and point out missed or blown calls that may or may not have affected the outcome of a game. Such is the nature of refereeing/officiating any sport.  But there is another side of the story, a side that speaks to dedication, integrity, and meeting the challenges of the game where correct split-second decisions are the norm and a must.

I give you Paul Kill, his son, Mark, and his grand-son, Alex.  This is a story about 3-generations of on-ice referees, their passion for officiating hockey and giving back to the sport they love.

I was aware of Paul’s officiating background for many years, but his story developed into something more recently. I approached him about telling this story and he agreed, not so much to tell or flaunt his personal accomplishments, but to share it with son Mark and grandson Alex in appreciation for them sharing Paul’s passion for officiating, that is: to referee in an objective and non-partisan manner, in every game, every time you step foot on the ice, to the best of one’s ability. The following was provided to me by Paul and I have added and edited to provide appropriate context. Q&A with all parties follows.

Three Generations of USA Hockey Officials: A Legacy of Excellence

 In the world of hockey, few families can boast a legacy as rich and enduring as that of the Kill family. Spanning three generations, their dedication to the sport and their commitment to upholding the integrity of the game has left an indelible mark on USA hockey officiating.

Paul Kill: The Foundation of a Legacy

Paul Kill, on the ropes!

Paul Kill’s journey in hockey began almost 40 years ago, after spending 17 years coaching his two sons, Mark and John. His passion for the sport and his desire to contribute to the game in a new capacity led him to officiating. Throughout his four-decade-long career, Paul has officiated at all levels of youth traveling hockey, including both girls’ and boys’ games. He also spent many years officiating high school games before stopping about 15 years ago. Additionally, Paul has officiated in high-skilled senior men’s leagues and continues to officiate adult women’s games for the Women’s Hockey Association of Minnesota (WHAM) – the largest adult (ages 18+) women’s league in the world.

Paul’s influence extends beyond the ice rink, as he has taken on the role of mentor to many young officials. He is a member of the WHAM Officials board and serves as the Mentor Coordinator, responsible for training all new individuals interested in officiating within the WHAM organization.

This year, he had the distinct honor of mentoring his grandson, Alex, in district 2 and district 8. Watching Alex follow in his footsteps has been a source of immense pride and joy for Paul, as he sees the continuation of the family tradition. 

Mark Kill: Continuing the Tradition

Mark Kill, Gen 2

Following in his father’s footsteps, Mark Kill has also made significant contributions to hockey officiating. Growing up under Paul’s guidance, Mark developed a deep understanding of the game and a strong sense of responsibility. His experience as a player and his father’s mentorship equipped him with the skills and knowledge needed to excel as an official.

Mark is a highly respected youth official and also officiates high school boys’ and girls’ games. He has earned the respect of players, coaches, and fellow officials through his consistent and fair officiating. His commitment to the sport and his ability to handle the pressures of the game have made him a valuable asset to USA hockey.

Alex Kill: The New Generation

Alex Kill, Gen 3

The newest member of the Kill family’s officiating legacy is Alex, Paul’s grandson. This year marks Alex’s debut as a hockey official, and he is already making a name for himself with his impressive performance. Under the watchful eye and guidance of his grandfather, Alex has quickly adapted to the demands of officiating and is proving to be a natural in the role.

Alex is a junior at Stillwater High School and has always played goalie on his hockey teams. In addition to being a brand new official this year and learning to skate without using goalie skates, he is also playing Junior Gold level hockey in Stillwater – and yes, as the goalie. Alex’s enthusiasm and dedication to learning the intricacies of the game have not gone unnoticed. His ability to make quick, accurate decisions on the ice and his calm demeanor in high-pressure situations have earned him praise from his peers and mentors alike. As he continues to grow and develop as an official, there is no doubt that Alex will uphold the Kill family’s legacy of excellence in hockey officiating.

Some Q&A with the crew!

I asked the guys a few questions to get some perspective on officiating this great game in the hopes that the answers would stir some audience interest and promote refereeing as a real opportunity for those interested as an alternative to hockey or something to pursue after hockey. I also wanted to find out more about the very popular WHAM league and their need for officials.

Q: What drew you to the refereeing aspect of hockey? You all played hockey for a long time. 

 Paul: I coached both of my boys for about 17 years from the time they were in mites through bantams and stayed involved in coaching until my youngest went off to college. When that was over a good friend of mine, Mark Bauer (also a hockey ref, and passed several years ago), told me I should get into officiating, that it was a lot of fun, keeps you on the ice, the people involved were really great, loved it and had a great passion for the sport. So, with little effort on Mark’s part, I decided to give it a try and was never disappointed.

 Mark: I got into refereeing after spending a year as an assistant coach for a Junior Gold A team—the same team I played for in high school—after graduating from college. When the organization reshuffled its coaching staff, they offered me the head coaching role for the Junior Gold B team. At that point in my life, I wasn’t ready for that level of commitment. My dad suggested I try refereeing instead, saying it was a great way to stay active in the game while earning a little money. That was 25 years ago, and I’ve been officiating ever since.

 Alex: Good way to make money in the winter while doing something I enjoy. My Dad and Papa had been doing it for many years and sold me on getting into it.

Q: There are several notable ref names in and around the Twin Cities area. Names such as Jerry Krieger, Bill Kronschnabel, Brad Shepard, and others.  Did any of these or other referees influence your interest in refereeing in any way?

 Paul: I knew all of these people but never refereed with them. I played youth hockey with Jerry and watched him on many occasions as he refed HS and college games. Dennis Alm, District 1 supervisor back then, was the closest I came to having a mentor when I started officiating and learned many of the fine points of officiating from him. At a referee’s instructor training seminar in Colorado Springs I met Mark Verplaetse, the USAH individual leading the seminar, and other officials from across the country with a passion for officiating the sport. In that seminar Mark cemented my desire to work hard in every game to ensure I’ve given my best to make sure the final game results were fair and unbiased.

 Mark: I know this question is more directed at my dad, but I have vivid memories of going to Cretin high school hockey games with him as a kid and seeing Jerry Krieger officiate. My dad would always point him out and mention how they grew up playing hockey together. But honestly, Jerry was hard to miss— in the era before referees wore helmets, his hair was always perfectly in place, no matter how fast he skated. Today, I referee high school hockey for the St. Paul Officials Association, where all three of those legends—Jerry Krieger, Bill Kronschnabel, and Brad Shepard—have played a significant role. Their impact on the officiating community is undeniable, and it’s an honor to be part of the same organization.

Paul keeping close watch on the action

Q: Hockey games are intense and get out of hand quickly as coaches or players get emotional or angry. Any big disputes with parents, coaches or players come to mind over the years?  How do you or did you handle these more intense situations? 

 Paul: Over the course of my career, I really had very few problems with coaches, players, parents or fans. As part of our training we try to give as much leeway to these high emotion situations as possible and do our best to handle them in a professional manner. The one coach encounter I remember was a HS game up north. The two teams were big rivals and the arena was packed, standing room only. The visiting team was getting their butts handed to them, the coach was a loud-mouthed jerk and on me the whole game. The team was taking every cheap shot possible and I accommodated them by issuing corresponding penalties – and the score showed it. Late in the game after I just placed another of his players in the box and was ready to conduct the faceoff in front of his beach, he placed his one foot on top of the boards, cupped his hands around his mouth and yelled “Kill (my name was on the back of my sweater), You are killing us”. I stopped the face off, went to his bench and motioned him to the end. At that time in a low voice ( so he had to strain to hear) I reminded him that due to his previous conduct I had given him a warning and later a bench penalty and that now he had just earned a GM. I then informed him the game would not continue until I saw him leave the arena and if he didn’t leave I would give him a match. Before leaving the bench, the coach turned, pointed at me and yelled “I’ll make sure you will never do any of our games again…” My only reply to him as I turned to go was to point to the name on my back and said “Coach, please make sure you get the name right!”. I skated to the faceoff area and watched to make sure he left the arena to the surprising cheers of most all the fans.

Mark: I don’t recall many major disputes with coaches, players, or fans over the years. I’ve probably had to eject fewer people than most referees, as I’m generally good at ignoring angry outbursts or diffusing tense situations. Some officials have a higher tolerance for that kind of behavior than others. One incident that stands out happened a few years ago while refereeing a regional playoff game at the Super Rink in Blaine. I believe it was a Peewee game when a player was injured in a collision. I saw the play clearly and determined there was no penalty to call. Since it was a playoff game, EMTs were on-site to tend to injured players, meaning coaches were not supposed to leave the bench and step onto the ice. However, in this case, the coach immediately jumped onto the ice—not to check on his player, but to sprint over and start screaming at me for not calling a penalty. At that point, I wasted no time showing him the door—not back to his bench, but out of the arena.

 Alex: This is my first year refereeing and I’m mostly working games for squirts and U10 girls and they are usually pretty tame. I haven’t had any big disputes with any coaches or parents this year, but I did have one experience where a kid lost his temper and started throwing punches. I was working with an adult ref who mostly handled the situation. Other than that I haven’t had any other very intense situations.

Q: What are your favorite age groups to ref?  Is there much difference refereeing boys or girls, men or women? 

 Paul: I enjoy the youth games and explaining to players, coaches, fans and secondary officials my reasoning for the calls I make. Most of the time I look at these as educational moments.  Not much difference between refereeing boys and girls. Usually, the boys play is a little faster, shots are harder, and play is more aggressive. Girls and women play a more finesse game than boys or men. Most times the sr. men and women games are understood to be recreational in nature, fun and good exercise, realizing that when the game is over they all expect to return to their occupations/livelihood the next morning without a visit to an emergency clinic.  

 Mark: It’s tough to pick a favorite age group or classification to ref since they all have their pros and cons. I love the atmosphere of high school hockey, though it can get pretty intense. On the other end of the spectrum, I enjoy refereeing young kids who are just learning the game. A high-level Peewee game is especially fun because it showcases a lot of skill without the physicality of checking. One level I really enjoy—though I’m not sure many refs would agree—is Junior Gold. The skill level varies widely, but the players seem to compete without the same pressure of high school teams, where a bad game could mean losing their spot. Since they’re high school-aged, you can actually talk to them and have fun, and most of the coaches are pretty laid-back. Of course, some kids will still call you an @#%hole—but luckily, Junior Gold has its own special ejection rules for those guys.

 Alex: I like working peewee games because they’re faster paced than squirts or U10s. I don’t really think there’s much of a difference in refereeing boys or girls games in these age groups.

Q: What’s neat about refereeing is that you get paid to be on the ice and enjoy hockey from a different perspective.  In Minnesota, pay ranges from $10/15 to $40/50 per hour as you progress from just starting out to being a veteran high school ref…even higher for college games. How has that aspect of officiating been for you?

Paul: The pay for the games worked is pretty good and takes care of my summer golf expenses and a few night out with my bride. As with most leagues, the greater the skill level of play, the higher the pay. Keep in mind that each year every USAH official has to be certified to be issued a card and crest for the upcoming year. The amount of time and effort needed to comply with these requirements (tests, clinics, on-line training modules, background checks, SafeSport training and more…) is considerable. There is no good excuse for not knowing the rules for the sport you are being paid handsomely to officiate. If you choose to also work HS and college then there are additional rules, training and testing requirements.

 Mark: As you’d expect, pay increases with the level of hockey you officiate. I don’t work college hockey, so I can’t speak to those rates, but it’s certainly the highest-paying level—and also the most time-intensive. Traditionally, high school hockey has paid more than youth hockey on a game-by-game basis. However, with rising youth hockey pay rates, the per-hour earnings can sometimes be higher for youth games once you factor in travel time, warm-ups, and breaks between games at the high school level. Pay does vary across Minnesota’s youth hockey districts and high school officials’ associations, but in all cases, it’s a great part-time job—especially for high school and college students getting into officiating.

 Alex: I think the pay is really good for someone my age for the amount of time you have to put into it. You get paid better per hour for the amount of time you would spend refereeing versus working at a retail store.

Alex ready to drop the puck

Q: There is a lot of intense action during games, especially at the higher levels or older age groups.  Did you ever get hurt? 

 Paul: Actually, I had my worst injuries at the lower-level games. Skaters at those ages are so small that you must take extra precautions to make sure one of them is not behind you and trip over them when backing out of an area. I have strained many a muscle and bruised a lot trying not to land on one of these little guys and turning them into a little flat wet spot on the ice. It wouldn’t be appreciated by many of the parents! At the higher levels I never received any serious injuries. I have had numerous bumps and bruises from sticks, pucks and collisions but thankfully nothing major.

 Mark: I’ve had my share of bumps and bruises, but thankfully, I’ve never suffered a significant injury on the ice. Every season, I take a few deflected shots or clearing attempts off unpadded areas that leave a mark. I’ve also had some close calls where my helmet or visor saved me from an errant stick or a stray puck. The most persistent “injuries” I’ve dealt with are overuse issues, like tendonitis in my ankles (or “lace bite”) from spending too much time in my skates.

 Alex: I have not gotten hurt as a referee yet.

Q: How did you get involved with WHAM and how long have you been the Mentor Coordinator and a member on their Officials board?  Do they have their own specific group of refs for their games or do they utilize a broad organization of refs from MN or USA hockey? 

 Paul: I have been officiating WHAM games almost from the inception of the league. I’m sure it has been well over 30 years but I don’t know for sure. I don’t remember the exact year that I got involved with the WOA (WHAM Officials Association). WHAM decided that they wanted to better themselves by having a group of officials that were passionate about hockey and the advancement of women’s hockey in Minnesota. They appointed Krissy Langley as the supervisor for WOA. Somehow Krissy got my name, we met a few times and decided how we wanted the WHAM official’s association to function and set out to do it. Shortly after organizing the supervisory board, Krissy encouraged me to take on the position of Mentor Coordinator. I have been in that role for about 10 years. Krissy has since gone on and accepted the role as USAH Female Development Referee In-Chief. She now covers the whole country seeking women to challenge themselves to officiate at the highest levels. WHAM has a select set of officials to work their games. The Mentor Program has been very successful and over the years has helped to develop new officials, some of which have gone on to achieve huge national and international success.

Q: WHAM is a very large organization with several levels or tiers of player experience.  In addition, they play all over the Twins Cities and MN. How are the refs assigned to the games and who keeps track of all that?

Paul: WHAM has its own scheduler who uses an APP called ARBITER for scheduling and assigning games. This app is used across the US and Canada and by most all of the districts and HS in the state. WHAM has about 10 skill levels of teams in the organization. The highest consists of players that have recently played in college including D1 and D3 schools. There are several of these players that had played professionally in the newly created women’s professional hockey leagues or had the opportunity to play there but declined due to conflicts with school, careers or personal decisions. The lowest levels are for those just getting into the sport and are 18 and older. New officials that come out of the mentor programs are initially assigned  to these lower level games until their skills and  confidence levels increase. WHAM officials are regularly reviewed to ensure officials are challenged in the games assigned but not overmatched.

Q: Thinking of all the various youth, high school, college and adult hockey organizations and leagues all over MN, how many different ref organizations are there in MN to cover all these games?  Do they all fall under one umbrella organization?  Seems like a monumental task!

Paul: There are 14 USAH youth districts in MN including WHAM as a district.  All of these fall under MHOA – Minnesota Hockey Official Association. For more info check out this link: https://www.minnesotahockey.org/page/show/80470-home

MHOA is a district within USAH – District Minnesota. Check out the following link: https://www.usahockey.com/officials

There are also 4+ High School officiating organizations, plus college organizations like BIG10 etc.

Alex watching the action

Q: What level(s) of play, geographic areas and/or conferences do Mark and Alex ref?

Mark: I ref youth hockey in Minnesota District 2 (St. Paul and northeastern suburbs) and District 8 (south-southeastern suburbs). I also officiate for high school hockey with St. Paul Hockey Officials Association (SPHOA) and occasionally even work some WHAM games.

Alex: I ref youth hockey in Minnesota District 2 and District 8.

Q: Where does someone interested in the becoming a ref start?  Does USA Hockey or MN Hockey have their own classroom and on-ice training centers and programs?  Is the training or certification process ongoing as you progress to a veteran ref doing higher level games?

Paul: Start by registering at https://www.usahockey.com/officials
Then you receive a rule book. 

Then every year:
Pick a clinic anywhere in the country to attend.
Complete USA on-line modules
Pass open book test
Pass clinic testing
Pass background investigation
Complete Safe Sport seminar
Receive Card and Crest
Contact district supervisor schedule games and or get mentored and evaluated.
Optional: attend regional and national camps for additional training

 Mark: As my dad mentioned, the best place to start is by visiting usahockey.com and clicking “Become an Official.” USA Hockey offers virtual and in-person training sessions across Minnesota, typically beginning in August or September each year. There’s also on-ice training, usually provided by USA Hockey or Minnesota Hockey, and sometimes by local referee associations, to help new officials get comfortable on the ice. As you progress to higher levels, the certification process includes more advanced training and, in some cases, a closed-book rules test. The certification process for high school hockey, managed through the National Federation of High School Sports (NFHS), is separate from USA Hockey’s but follows a similar structure.

Q: With so many refs doing so many games is there any potential bias in what refs do what games for what teams, especially related to tournaments?  If so, how is any bias prevented?

 Paul: In most cases schedulers are looking to assign officials to games that fit their skill level, availability and dependability. Bias issues are the Responsibility of the district supervisors, schedulers and their boards and at a higher level Steve Tatro Minnesota District, Referee-In-Chief.

 Mark: I don’t see referee bias as an issue. Most officials I know take their role seriously and remain completely impartial once they put on the stripes, regardless of where they’re working—even if they know players, parents, or coaches from a team. While many referees are also fans, coaches, or hockey parents in their own communities, that all stays in the locker room once the ref sweater goes on and the whistle comes out. At higher levels, such as high school hockey, assignors are mindful of potential conflicts and avoid scheduling officials for games involving their home school. During high school playoffs and the state tournament, the selection process is even more stringent to ensure fairness and eliminate any perceived bias.

Q: How often do you get to ref with Mark and Alex?  Has to be a great time.  How many games a week or month are you still reffing?

 Paul: I mentored Alex so we did about 6-8 games this season. Mark and I were only scheduled about 4 or so. There is nothing I would rather be doing then refereeing with Mark and Alex and if I could I would adjust my schedule to get even more games with them. No greater feeling than being on the ice with them and watching them excel and participate in a sport we all love.

Paul & Alex – Faceoff Training

Q: How do or did you like refereeing with your dad/grandpa?  What is the most significant thing about refereeing you learned from him?

 Mark: Refereeing with my dad has undoubtedly been one of the highlights of my adult life. It’s a unique bond that we’ve been able to share, and I’ll always cherish it. I refereed my very first game with him, and I still look forward to every opportunity we get to be on the ice together—he’s the best partner I’ve ever had. Now, my dad and I get to share this experience with Alex as well. One of my biggest goals was to get Alex into refereeing before my dad retired, and I was lucky enough to see that happen. The greatest highlight of my officiating career came at the beginning of this season when I got to be on the ice with both my dad and Alex for Alex’s very first game as a referee. He and I were partners for a U10 girls’ game, and my dad was on the ice as his referee mentor. It was an incredibly meaningful and memorable moment for me. The most significant lesson I’ve learned from my dad about refereeing is that it’s something you can do for a very long time. It’s more than just officiating games, it’s a lifelong connection to the sport we love.

 Alex: It’s really fun refereeing with my dad. My dad and Papa have pretty much taught me everything about refereeing when I’ve worked with them. I’ve learned it is important to make it look like you know what you are doing and “sell” the calls. My dad keeps teaching me about how important it is to hustle in every game.

Q: What is the most rewarding aspect of refereeing for you?  The most challenging?

 Paul: First and foremost is the opportunity to be officiating with my son Mark as he progressed through hockey and followed me into refereeing to become a very successful and knowledgeable official. Additionally, I am so proud and honored that Alex is following the same path that his dad and I took and I am sure he will follow up and become as successful as his dad.  Most challenging is trying to negotiating rush hour traffic on I94 to get to a 5:00 game at Augsburg when running late!

 Mark: The most rewarding part of refereeing, aside from getting to share the experience with my dad and son, is simply seeing kids out on the ice, having fun and enjoying the game. A close second is when a coach shakes your hand after a hard-fought game and sincerely compliments you on a job well done—it’s a small gesture, but it means a lot. The most challenging part for me is keeping my emotions in check when coaches or players start losing control of theirs. Staying calm and composed in those moments isn’t always easy, but it’s a crucial part of the job.

 Alex: I like being able to be on the ice and be the one who is “in charge” of the game when I’m out there. It’s fun to be able to ref with my family, and it pays pretty well, so that helps too.

 A Family Affair

The story of the Kill family is a testament to the power of passion, dedication, and mentorship. Paul’s decision to transition from coaching to officiating not only shaped his own career but also set the stage for future generations to follow. Mark’s commitment to maintaining the high standards set by his father and Alex’s promising start as an official highlight the enduring legacy of the Kill family in USA hockey.

In 2020 Paul received an award from the Minnesota Hockey Officials Association (MHOA). The award was first handed out in 2015 and only one official in the state receives it each year. This award honors an individual who has unselfishly made outstanding contributions to the officiating program in Minnesota during many years of service to the hockey community as an official and a volunteer. Congrats Paul!

The Kill Family journey serves as an inspiration to all those involved in the sport, demonstrating the importance of family, tradition, and the relentless pursuit of excellence. As the Kill family continues to contribute to the game they love, their legacy will undoubtedly inspire future generations of hockey officials for years to come.

 Interested in Hockey Officiating? 

There is quite a bit of information provided above if you or someone you know are interested in becoming a hockey referee. Paul also provided this contact info:

Women : Krissy Langley  kl1620e@aol.com 
FemaleDevelopmentRIC@gmail.com
Referee In Chief

Or

Steve Tatro District Referee-In-Chief 
https://www.minnesotahockey.org/officials

 Interested in learning more about the WHAM organization?

 For more information about WHAM, check out their site =>> HERE.

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It is with great sadness that Len Lilyholm, a local hockey legend, has been killed in a tragic accident in Iowa, along with his wife, Carol, as they were traveling to Palm Beach, FL for the winter this past Saturday, Dec 28, 2024.  This marks a heartbreaking and shocking event in the lives of his family and many friends, hockey related and other, as the news spread rapidly.  Details on the accident are forthcoming and any news on funeral arrangements or memorial sevices are pending.

Lilyholm was always in the limelight, whether he was playing for the USA in some compacity early in his career, pro hockey in Europe, for the WHA Fighting Saints, or for countless local and national adult tournaments into his eighties.  He and his lovely wife, Carol, will be sorely missed by all who knew them.  This is sad news, indeed.

The following article, originally published in 2015, is being republished as a reminder of his hockey background and his efforts to bring new ice-making technology to the US.

(Photo: New REALICE surface shines at Braemar’s main rink in Edina)

Edina Braemar and Blaine Super Rink first to engage in MN

Former USA Olympic and professional hockey player, Len Lilyholm, is bringing new ice-making technology to Minnesota and the U.S.  What Europe, Canada and the Russian KHL professional league have known for several years, the U.S. is just now learning: There is a better and more cost-effective way to make indoor ice.

Enter REALICE technology from Cypress Ltd.

A local hockey legend.  Len Lilyholm hails from Minneapolis and played high school hockey at Robbinsdale where he was all state his senior year.

He went on to play for the Minnesota Gophers in the early 60’s and graduated in 1966 with an architecture degree.

As an amateur, he played five seasons with the U.S. National Team, representing them at the 1966, 1967, 1970, 1971 and 1974 World Championships.  He was the captain and the team’s leading scorer in 1974.

He also was a member of the 1968 U.S. Olympic team that played in Grenoble, France.

He played several years of minor league hockey with the Rochester Mustangs from 1965-68 and 1969-70, and also played parts of a few seasons in Austria, with Salzburg EC and Kitzbühel AC.

1968 US Olympic Team. Back Row L-R: Larry Stordahl, Ron Naslund, Bob Paradise, Bob Gaudreau, Larry Pleau, Doug Vollmer Middle Row L-R: Murray Williamson, Coach/General Manager, Doc Rose, Trainer, Len Lilyholm, Craig Falkman, Paul Hurley, Don Ross, Jack Morrison, Bruce Riutta, Don Niederkorn Front Row L-R: Jim Logue, John Cunniff, Herb Brooks, Lou Nanne, Tom Hurley, Pat Rupp Not Pictured: Jack Dale, Jerry York

Lilyholm played one year in the majors, playing for the Minnesota Fighting Saints of the World Hockey Association in 1972-73, appearing in 77 games.

He finished out his hockey career in 1973-74 with the Suncoast Suns of the Southern Hockey League.

In 1978, he coached the U.S. National Junior U20 team at the World Junior tournament in Montreal.  A powerful Canadian team had the likes of Wayne Gretzky (at only 16 years old) and Bobby Smith, but finished third behind Sweden and Russia.  The U.S. team finished 4-2.

As an architect and builder, he participated in the design of the St. Paul Civic Center completed in 1973 as the home of the Fighting Saints.

Len continues to play into his 70’s, frequently participating in local and national adult hockey tournaments.

He now works for Cypress Ltd as an Energy Advisor professional for the REALICE technology.  Len and his wife, Carol, now reside in Palm Beach, Florida.

Len Lilyholm, Minnesota Fighting Saints, 1972-1973

REALICE is for Real.  Invented in Sweden with a worldwide patent by Watreco AB and now in use in over 300 rinks worldwide, REALICE is a low-cost device that reduces energy used in the ice-making process.  The majority of ice rinks traditionally use heated water to build and resurface refrigerated ice surfaces.  Heating the water removes micro-bubbles, also making it flow more easily.  It also slows the ice freezing process so that the ice surface freezes without ridges or rough patches.

RealIce technology installed at Braemar Arena

The REALICE technology removes the micro-bubbles and changes the viscosity of un-heated water, allowing it to also flow easily and have a better heat transfer while providing clearer and harder ice.  This saves on expensive gas water heating and electric refrigeration costs.  In addition, the compressors do not have to work as hard since the unheated water freezes faster at the cooler water temperature. This also saves on electricity and compressor maintenance. In addition, dehumidification systems do not have to work as hard either.  There are no moving or mechanical parts and no maintenance required.  Payback (ROI) is advertised to be less than two years for a single rink and less than one year for a unit that serves a double rink.  Monthly savings has been documented at between $1200 and $1500 per rink and there usually are rebates from the local gas and electric utility.  The ice is harder, clearer, and faster.

REALICE is a ”green” technology and is now a proven product.  Installed first in Europe in 2008, it is now in its second generation.  Used widely in Europe for several years, it is now being used by the Russian professional league, KHL.  It is endorsed by the Swedish, Finnish and International Ice Hockey Federations.  The NHL has also been using it for their outdoor Winter and Heritage Classic events since 2011.

In December 2010, Cypress, Ltd. conducted the field placement study for Southern California Edison to quantify the energy savings and test the quality of the ice. Recently, a major gas utility in British Columbia, Canada funded a pilot program to test the technology in 10 rinks in cities and towns across the province.  See this news clip out of Prince George, B.C.  Many utilities now provide incentives to install the technology, and the largest U.S. gas utility, Southern California Gas Company, is launching a utility program around the technology.

U.S. Rinks are Warming Up to the Technology.  Per Lilyholm, the U.S. seems late to the game, but it’s tough to get rink managers to change the way they have been doing things for years.  There are, however, signs that it will take off soon.

Iowa State University installed the first unit in North America back in 2010 after the son of a university professor playing hockey in Luxembourg brought the technology back to Iowa.  The professor, Al Murdoch, who was heavily involved in Iowa’s famed club hockey program, installed and performed an extensive study with impressive results.

Lilyholm was aware of this and also had a key contact in Luxembourg that was using the technology.  After studying this and seeing the results first hand, he decided to embrace the challenge of getting rink managers in the U.S. to investigate and pilot the device.

Edina and Blaine lead the way.  It’s no surprise that Edina’s Braemar arena and the Schwan Super Rink in Blaine, both progressive hockey operations serving well-known and successful hockey and figure skating programs, were willing to plow new ground and give the technology a try after obtaining detailed energy calculations and utility support.

Edina, with three indoor refrigerated rinks at Braemar, installed a unit serving their two practice rinks in September of 2014.  Susie Miller, the general manager of the facility, told MHM that while the financial analysis has not been completed yet, early results appear to be as advertised.  With energy rebates and promised lower gas and electric costs, she is very optimistic about lowering her operating costs.  She also stressed that while reducing their energy costs was important for a facility as large as theirs, the quality of the new ice was more important to their customers, both their renowned hockey programs at all levels and the figure skating organizations.  So far, so good.  Reports on ice quality have been positive.  Hockey players and coaches, along with the figure skaters, are happy, and on Wednesday, Feb. 4, the technology was also installed at the main Braemar rink.

Lilyholm on hand during installation at Braemar’s main rink

At the National Sports Center Super Rink, the technology was just installed at two of the main Olympic size rinks (rinks 3 & 4) on Friday, Feb 6.  Their engineers plan to analyze the results and determine if/when they will install the REALICE technology in the other rinks.

Lilyholm told MHM that the REALICE technology awareness is gaining momentum.  It is the only resurfacing technology that U.S. gas and electric utilities feel confident enough to pay incentives.  A few operations on the East Coast are in the process of looking closely at installations soon.  He indicated that the results of the Edina and Blaine installs will go a long way to convince arenas across Minnesota and the U.S. to go “green”, reduce greenhouse gas emissions and significantly reduce the costs associated with providing indoor refrigerated ice.

For more info.  For more detailed information on the REALICE technology, you can go to their website here.

Len with wife Carol

Len Lilyholm can be reached at:

Phone: 612-940-4961

E-mail: len@realice.us

About Cypress Ltd.  Cypress Ltd is a MN corporation headquarted in California that has served clients for more than 25 years as an energy advisory firm.  They provide efficiency and demand solutions for electric, gas and water utilities and their customers.  Their primary focus is on what is important to customers who want to realize cost-effective reductions in utility-related operational costs.  They work to demonstrate the advantages of energy efficiency and demand-saving technologies and behaviors.  You can learn more about Cypress Ltd here.

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Every year during the spring, the DinoMights organization brings in kids ages seven and eight (1st and 2nd grade) from Minneapolis and St. Paul to teach them how to ice skate. During this six week program they teach kids the basics of skating in a very inclusive and encouraging environment.

Skating for the first time, which is the case for most of the kids they serve, can be a very anxious task. With the help of the DinoMights staff and many amazing volunteers they help minimize any self doubts about stepping into the unfamiliar world of hockey.  Their smiles and confidence grow throughout the course of the program and, if you volunteer, you will be a part of many unforgettable and important moments that these kids can share and experience for the rest of their lives.

Although there are still many barriers that prevent kids from being able to join the world of hockey, DinoMights provides a solution by bringing in kids from areas that often get overlooked to both participate in and enjoy our Learn 2 Skate program.

The DinoMights are seeking groups and individuals to volunteer to help tie skates, and to give a hand on the ice. They hope to see you!

Here is the link to sign up to volunteer:

https://signup.com/client/invitation2/secure/4110193960127/false#/invitation 

Above details provided by Scott Harman, DinoMights Executive Director

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It is OPEN TO THE PUBLIC and is FREE.  Hor d’oeuvres will be served.  Location at DeGidio’s will be in the back room.

The association historically has hosted three major events each year; a fall luncheon, a golf tourney and a spring roast. 

Their primary charity is the John Mariucci Lodge at Camp Confidence for disabled children, located at Lake Sylvan in northern Minnesota. They have raised several hundred thousand dollars for this program to-date and was one of  Mariucci’s favorite causes. This State Tournament Preview is a first for the Old Timers Association. 

Mike McGraw, a local well-known hockey celebrity, is now the President of this organization.

The State Tournament Preview will be in the format of an expert panel discussion.

Featured presenters/panelists include:

• Danny Ryan Youth Hockey Hub
• Loren Nelson Legacy Hockey
• Dave La Vaque Legacy Hockey, MN Hockey Hub
• Jerry Borough Minnesota Hockey Connection
• Karl Schuettler Minnhock blog and Youth Hockey Hub Podcast

Each of these analysts sees a minimum of 50 high school games per year and they attend fall Elite League games.

This new format promises to very informative and entertaining. 

Each presenter will have 10 minutes to talk about the Class A and the Class AA tournaments, followed by 5 minutes to talk about who they see as top performers and their picks for Mr Hockey and the Frank Brimsek top goalie.

The evening discussion will finish with questions.  It should be fun evening and a great way to get some serious insight in the upcoming tournament.

If you would like more information on this event, on the association’s other events or on how to join the MN Old Timers Hockey Association, please contact:

Mike McGraw
President of Minnesota Old Timers Assoc.
612-801-1660
mcpuck93@aol.com

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Background and Ties to Minnesota

The Olde Crabs Hockey Club, LLC, was established in 1991 when a bunch of guys playing against each other on various teams in Westchester County, NY decided to join up to form a team to  play in over 50 division of Snoopy World Hockey Tournament in California.  One of their players was killed in an auto accident.  They hosted a charity tournament with all proceeds going to the American Diabetes Association as requested by his family.  After 3 successful early years and 4 years negotiating with the IRS, the Olde Crabs were granted 501c non-profit charity status. The Fall Tournament Hosted at the Danbury Ice Arena in Danbury , CT, draws 28-32  teams from across the US and Canada in  50, 60,70 and women’s 40+ divisions, is celebrating 15 years and has raised over $300,000 to support local charities.  The Hockey Club founder was Ron Faanes, a Roosevelt grad, class of ’59.  Minnesota Hockey Magazine did a story about their tourney and the yearly participation by the Minnesota Old Timers hockey club.  You can read that story by clicking >> HERE.

The following is the story of  the Connecticut Junior Rangers U12 Girls, one of the benefactors last year, written by Lindsay King and edited by Ron Faanes.

Quebec Pee-Wee Hockey Tournament, February 8-19, 2023

For over 60 years, 11 and 12-year-old hockey players from all over the globe have convened in Montreal to battle it out for what has colloquially referred to as “The Pee-Wee World Championships”. The tournament takes place at the Videotron Center, with a capacity of 18,000 fans. These young players have repeatedly called this tournament a “once in a lifetime experience”, often playing in front of more than 10,000 people and televised for all to see. The tournament is annually attended by over 2,000 competitors from over 40 countries, and takes place during the Quebec City Winter Carnival, which draws hundreds of thousands of visitors each year, as the largest winter festival in the Western Hemisphere. For the first time in over 60 years, the Quebec International Pee-Wee Hockey Tournament, the most prestigious amateur hockey tournament in the world, created a girls division. Twelve girl’s teams from around the world were selected to participate; the Connecticut Junior Rangers U12 Girls was one of the 12 selected.

This group was thrilled to have the occasion to compete against the best female youth hockey players in the world.  The CT Junior Rangers felt they were up to the task to compete on the world stage.

The tournament, more than hockey, presented an opportunity to be immersed in French-Canadian culture, touring such historic landmarks as Old Quebec and the Citadelle of Quebec. It was about meeting, competing against and forging friendships with players from all over the world who share the same passion.

Women’s hockey is one of the fastest growing sports in the world. Making its Olympic debut in 1998, those former players are now back in their communities, serving as role models and ambassadors for the game. There’s a long way to go, but the number of girls currently playing hockey globally is greater than ever before, and the numbers only continue to accelerate. The tournament’s decision to include girls in the Annual Tournoi International de Hockey is yet another example of progress being made and boundaries being broken.

The Path to Respectability

The CT girls went 4-1-1, losing in the Quarterfinals to the eventual Champions, the West Durham Lightning 2-0.

Over the course of the tournament, the girls beat teams from Montreal (2), New Brunswick and England. They also tied a very large team of Kazakhstan boys in an exhibition game 2-2.

Playing in front of thousands of people, on the big stage, our girls played their hearts out game in and game out.

Given that our team is made up of half 2011’s in a vastly predominant 2010 tournament, our girls were often outmatched in physical size, but never in speed, skill or grit.

Off the ice, the girls took in all Quebec had to offer. They went to the Winter Carnival and the Old City, fortunate that many of our days were unseasonably warm! They also loved the 63 year traditional of pin trading with teams from all over the world. It was great to see the “value” of the CJR girls’ pins increase as they continued to win throughout the week! Initially the boys were disinterested… not the case by the end of the week! And glancing through a larger lens, having Ukraine participatingthe tournament drew fans and emotions from all, and it was special to see our girls find understanding and warmth in supporting them. As is often the case, the lessons learned throughout the week were not confined to hockey.

All of the girls in the tournament were a part of something truly special. To be the very first girls division to play in the biggest youth hockey tournament in the world is something no one can ever take away from them. It was a great week for girls hockey, and to be a part of it in this way was a special experience these girls will cherish throughout their lifetime. Thank you for helping make this possible for them.

Please enjoy these photos from the tournament.

Warm Regards, Ron Faanes & Lindsay King

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Well-Known Player/Coach Jake McCoy Passes at 79

It is with great sadness that we have lost one of Minnesota’s and Minneapolis’s outstanding hockey figures of our generation.  It was reported yesterday (Friday, Feb 5, 2021) that Thomas “Jake” McCoy passed away.  It was my pleasure and privilege to have spent several hours interviewing Jake for the article below in preparation for his MHM lifetime achievement award presented to him 2 years ago.  RIP Jake McCoy.  Funeral arrangements are pending.

This Article was also Republished for HDM Minneapolis 2020

Jake McCoy

Minnesota Hockey Magazine is proud to announce that its Marv Jorde Memorial Lifetime Achievement Award will be given to Jake McCoy at the Dec 22^nd Parker’s Reunion event at Tom Reid’s Hockey City Pub. Jake is well known in the hockey community as a player and longtime coach in Minneapolis and Richfield High School. Festivities begin at noon and is open to all senior hockey players and friends at no cost. Join us!

Jake’s Playing Days.

Thomas James (Jake) McCoy, born in 1942, grew up playing hockey on the local ponds and playgrounds of South Minneapolis. Like many kids from that era, the local outdoor ice was where you learned to have passion and love for the game. It wasn’t clear, however, that hockey was going to be Jake’s sport of choice.

McCoy, center, led DeLaSalle to a state tournament birth in 1959

Most people don’t know, but he was actually a basketball player at first and did not play organized hockey until 1953 as an 11 year old sixth grader. He played basketball in 7th and 8th grade, but continued to spend many hours during the winter skating at Pearl Park, playing pick-up hockey.

In 9th grade, while a freshman at DeLaSalle, Jake finally became a full time hockey player on local Bantam (PeeWee) teams since DeLaSalle did not have a varsity high school team yet. As a senior, he led his DeLaSalle Islander team to its first ever Independent State High School tournament appearance in only its second year of varsity hockey. Remarkably, at the same time, he was playing on a local senior amateur team called the Royal 58 Beer. This team won both the Minnesota State and National Amateur Championships that year.

As a Gopher, back row, 3rd from left

After playing one year at St. John’s University, he transferred to the University of Minnesota as a walk-on. He was not eligible to play varsity his sophomore year, but played on the freshmen team. As a junior and senior in 1962 and 1963 he finished his college playing days for John Mariucci’s Gophers.  

Of his Gopher playing days, Jake says, “I was deeply indebted to John Mariucci for giving me the chance to play varsity hockey. He didn’t play politics and didn’t have to give me a chance, but he did”.

In the fall of 1963, Jake attended open tryouts for the 1964 USA Men’s Olympic Team at Wakota arena in South St. Paul.

Just eight years after giving up basketball for hockey, he made the team as a defensemen while competing for a position against many Olympic veterans, college All-American’s and pros. He competed in the 1964 Olympics in Innsbruck, Austria. 

About the tryouts, Jake recounts, “Every day new guys were coming and going. You just took it one day at a time.”  

His experience in Innsbruck was memorable,”I’ll never forget. The setting was fabulous, the teams were great. The Russians and Czechs were ferocious when they played. The Canadians were full of WCHA players we had played with and against in college.”

Team USA, 1964 Olympics

After the Olympics in 67/68 he played in the USHL with the Minnesota Nationals, a farm team for the USA National team. In 68/69 he played with another USHL team in Duluth, the Duluth Port Stars, and then the Rochester Mustangs when the Duluth team folded.

He went on to play many years of senior amateur hockey throughout the United States and Canada, first for Steven’s Buick, then with Marv Jorde’s Parkers Hockey Club where he won 8 Minnesota State and 6 National Senior Men’s Championships.

Former teammates have high praise for not only his on-ice talents but also for his dedication to coaching and, in general, his character, friendship and humor off-ice.  

Rich Brown, USHL, IHL and Parker player said, “Jake ranks with Marv Jorde for enthusiasm for the love of the game. He blocked shots as very few could. He was like a rock on defense and moved the puck. He was always a factor in the game he was in.” 

Dave Arundel, a former youth player for Jake, Wisconsin Badger and eventual teammate of Jake’s after playing some pro hockey adds, “Playing with Jake was the most fun I have ever had playing hockey. Jake was a tough, tough D-Man, and very skilled. The BEST passer I ever played with.  Usually played with no helmet and NO ONE blocked more shots than he did. And…he was the most unselfish D partner you could ever have. He was always dishing you the puck with a perfect pass. He made you look GREAT out there.” 

A Coaching Legend.  

Jake started coaching Minneapolis youth hockey teams in 1960. He coached hockey in Richfield at all levels from mites through head hockey coach from 1966-2013 and was also the head hockey coach at Minneapolis Washburn from 1986-1990.

McCoy as youth hockey coach

He continued to coach youth hockey in Richfield and in Eden Prairie for his grandson’s squirt team. In all he spent over 50 consecutive years coaching hockey in Minnesota. He still does some youth coaching today.

Jake coached at a time when Richfield’s many outdoor skating rinks were loaded with kids hoping to someday play high school hockey for the hometown Spartans.  There were several successful years – six appearances in the old one-class state tournament, including a championship game appearance in 1976. With dwindling numbers over the years, the Richfield team fell on hard times until, in November 2016, the decision was made to shut down its program. It was a difficult thing to take for Jake and the community at large. 

Jake commented, “It was a sad day. We just ran out of kids.” Of his Richfield teams he said, “We played in a very tough Lake Conference. The best part of  coaching the Richfield kids was that they were blue collar. They played hard and they worked hard. When we lost, the kids just kept working harder.”  

Richfield started hockey back in 1954-55. Jake added, “It was hard to see that kind of history end.”

Jake, Richfield Hockey Coach

Jake always enjoyed being a coach and learned that the game of hockey is very important to kids’ development at all levels. He believes if you give kids a chance to play in crucial situations, they will have success both on and off the rink.

He commented, “If you give kids a chance, they will surprise you. Today’s win-at-all-cost thinking comes at the expense of the kids. I’m glad I played all the kids. It instills confidence in them and they will give back.”

He was inducted into the Richfield Athletic Hall of Fame in 2004 and the Minneapolis Hockey Hall of Fame in 2016.

Dave Arundel said, “He was my bantam coach in 7^th, 8^th and 9^th grades. I was in AWE of him. First of all…I wanted to be like Jake. I wanted to play hockey like him, I wanted to talk like him and I wanted his sense of humor. If I have had ANY success as a hockey player it was due to Jake!”  

Coach Jake McCoy

Arundel summarizes how many of his former players thought of him, “Jake McCoy was, is and will always be my idol and hero. He is one of the top 2 or 3 most influential people in my life. Selfless, encouraging, humorous, understanding and unconditional with his love.” Quite the testimonial.  

You can also add “humble” to the list of adjectives to describe Jake. In discussing his playing and coaching career, Jake very much downplayed the success he has had over the years, “I had a lot of good fortune and think I am one of the luckiest guys in the world. I had a great run. I had fun and success and you can’t beat that.”

Lifetime Achievement Award.

For Jake’s long time playing and coaching achievements and for his significant, generous and caring contributions to youth and high school hockey in Minnesota, Minnesota Hockey Magazine is proud to bestow on Jake McCoy the Marv Jorde Memorial Lifetime Achievement Award.  Now!

Congratulations, Jake!

Jake is dedicating this award to the late Marv Jorde, another person who had a remarkable influence on those he touched.

(Credits: Some information and photos taken from previous web-based articles on Jake McCoy and Richfield hockey history.)

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Date is set for Friday, September 18, 2020.

Our 8th Annual Foundation Charity Golf Tournament will STILL be held on Friday, September 18th, at beautiful Pheasant Hills golf course in Hammond, WI.  Visit their web site =>> HERE.

We seriously considered cancelling the event, but it is still ON!  We have REDUCED the price to $50 and simplified the event with social distancing in mind.  No dinner or silent auction, but lunch is included.

Check this link to the NEW .pdf version of the tournament flier =>> HERE.

With your help, we have sent over 250 kids in need to hockey camp over the last 7 years and we are working to continue that success!

Please consider participating and talk to your golfing buddies and hockey friends.

There will still be prizes and on-course events.  Tee-times are available in addition to a modified shotgun start.

If you are interested in sponsoring a hole, there are several levels of corporate sponsorships available.
Just contact Scott at scott@mnhockeymag.com or call 715-222-6460.

Thanks. MHM Staff

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Well-Connected/Respected Hockey Devotee Passes at 83

There are not a lot of Minnesota or metro-area hockey players, coaches or arena managers that did not know, or know of, Denny May.  The long-time manager of first, Braemar Arena in Edina and second, of Bloomington Ice Garden, affectionately known as “BIG”, passed away peacefully on 12/1/2019, in the company of his loving family.

I had the opportunity to discuss Denny’s life with several members of his family and appreciate their openness and willingness to share his background, family life, and career achievements with MHM’s fans and followers.

Growing Up in Mpls

 Denny grew up in south Minneapolis, right across the street from Powderhorn Park.

His mother and her siblings grew up on farms in Cannon Falls MN, and while growing up, Denny would spend many of his summers working there.  

Mike, his son, said, “I believe this helped develop the strong work ethic he maintained his entire life. He was very proud to have grown up in Mpls and was determined to raise his family the same way.”

He spent most of his days and nights at Powderhorn Park, playing hockey with the neighborhood kids.  Like many hockey players at that time, outdoor hockey was the norm.  Denny told stories of how he and his friends would play all winter long until they turned the lights out at night. He always boasted of how they would play all day even when the temperature dropped below zero.

He also enjoyed playing summer sports, many played at Nicollet Field, now King Park.  He would play tennis, baseball, and football with his friends.  

Danny, his son, said, “He remained extremely loyal to his Mpls background, maintaining friendships from his youth up until his death.”

He played hockey at Central High school, and graduated in 1954.

In the Service of his Country/College

Denny joined the Marine Corps in 1956 and according to Mike, spent two years “risking his life as an artillery spotter at the beautiful Camp Pendleton during peace time.”

Danny commented, “I don’t know a whole lot about his military experience. I do know that he followed a handful of his buddies who joined and then encouraged my dad to go with them. I recall him saying how he told his friends that they were crazy for joining, but he then joined as well and they all served in the Marines together at camp Pendleton. This also demonstrates his loyalty to his friends. I’m sure his military experience helped shape his character, as he was a very honest, hard-working man.”

After his Marine Corps experience, Denny enrolled at the University of Minnesota in a 4-year Bachelor’s degree program in Parks and Recreation Management.

He met his wife, Pat, in 1958 and they married in October of 1960.  School was interrupted by the birth of his first two children so Denny started working at local parks Sibley and Keewaydin.

Raising a Hockey Family

I asked the family what it was like growing up in a hockey family with Denny at the helm and how he influenced them.

Danny commented, “Growing up in our house was amazing, especially from a hockey standpoint. Most of my first memories involve playing hockey, whether on skates or playing boot hockey. My dad ran Braemar Arena when I was very young and then started BIG when I was 7-8 years old. We had access to those facilities and were the envy of all of our friends. When there was an hour of unrented ice time, my dad would bring us to the rink and we would play shinny games. We also had the best outdoor rink in the neighborhood in our backyard, which my dad developed and maintained. The entire neighborhood would spend all winter playing boot hockey at our house until my parents turned the lights off at night. Hockey wasn’t our only pastime or activity. We all played T-Ball, baseball and a little football. My dad also bought several boats when we were very young, and we spent many summer days boating and water skiing at Lake Waconia and Minnetonka.”

Chris, Michelle, Danny and Mike family skate BIG circa, 1973

Mike went on to say, “My dad not only raised 4 kids skating, (3 sons in hockey and a daughter in figure skating), but most of our friends too.  Several friends have commented how both our parents made them feel like family. My dad was always taking our friends and line mates with him to the rink to skate and practice, and as Danny mentioned our back yard was a flooded rink for the entire neighborhood. Tom Chorske, (one of my brother Chris’ best friends and line mate) has given my dad several shout-outs for all the ice time.  He would load them up in the car and take them to work with him.”

“Our hockey careers started at Braemar in 1965 when my dad was the assistant manager.  Open ice family skates started then and did not stop for 40 years.   We were always going to work with my dad.  We spent LOTs of time at BIG; the rink became our home away from home. In the early years we were lucky to hang-out with the first MN North Stars and Fighting Saints.  I will always remember going back to BIG on game nights with my dad, after dinner, when Jefferson, Kennedy and Lincoln would play each other the place would be packed.  My brother and I would stay late and sweep the stands and clean up the rink with Dad, stopping at White Castle on the way home.”   

“We were lucky our dad’s career helped shape our lives and the BIG was the centerpiece of our family and employees were an extension of that family. My dad truly loved his job and having us kids at work with him made it even more special.  When us kids grew up and got our own jobs my dad then brought his faithful black lab name “Sam” to work with him.  Sam had quite a legacy of her own at BIG.  We were spoiled skating on indoor ice most of the time but we had the best of both worlds.  My dad always flooded our backyard rink, put up lights and boards (which were old bleachers from BIG).  All the neighborhood kids loved to come over and skate and play boot hockey.”

“When we got a bit older we skated or with pros and college athletes we idolized.   We also skated with the likes of Wayne Gretzky, Soviet Union players Tarasov & Tretiak, the Edmonton Oilers and 1980 US Olympic team.  My dad even got a shout-out from his friend Herb Brooks – during the 1980 boys state tournament – when they asked Herbie what he was going to do now that the Olympics was over he said, “I don’t know maybe I will go work for my buddy Denny May at the Bloomington Ice Garden”.

Hockey was definitely in the Denny May family genes as the following demonstrates:

     –  son Mike May, Southwest High school / Mankato Mavericks
     –  son Danny May, Southwest High school / UMD Bulldogs
     –  son Chris May, Southwest / U of MN Gophers
     –  son in-law Sandy Smith, Brainerd Warriors / UMD Bulldogs / Played in Europe
     –  granddaughter Emma Smith, Varsity Brainerd Warriors senior
     –  granddaughter Alexis May, JV Benilde Saint Margaret freshman

Mike added, “My dad was active throughout his life, golfing, biking the Minneapolis city lakes, tennis, boating, water skiing, baseball and he and my mom loved to travel.  They took full advantage of the benefits of having a daughter (Michelle May Smith) who worked for the airlines. They traveled extensively thru Europe and the US.  He truly enjoyed family vacations in NY City and the Hamptons to visit his brother Tommy.  And after retirement spending winters in Palm Springs (with Marv Jorde and all the hockey guys). He was friendly yet sarcastic, quick witted and loved to give people a hard time in jest.  For his mild mannered exterior, he had a short fuse and a lot of passion.” 

Braemar & BIG Management – Lasting Connections

Denny worked at Braemar arena in Edina for 4 years starting in 1965, first as an assistant manager, then as the manager.  He followed that engagement as the manager of Bloomington Ice Garden for 36 years.  During that time he touched the lives of many people and became very well-connected with a broad and expanding hockey community.  I asked the family about his contributions/achievements during those years and how it influenced others.

Raising The Cup at John Johannson’s 1995. Mike, Chris, Chore and Denny.

Danny was the first to comment, “I think my dad’s biggest achievement and legacy from the arenas is the reputation he achieved. He spent 36 years at BIG, starting Rink One while it was still under construction. He then participated and helped BIG evolve from one rink into three rinks over his years. BIG and the hockey people who spent time there were like my dad’s second family. He was truly revered by the hockey community, especially from BIG.  I’ve never known anyone who truly loved their occupation like he did. He went so far above and beyond what was required of him because BIG was so important to him. He would work all day long, come home and eat dinner with our family and then return to BIG to work the HS hockey games at night. After the games conclusion, instead of going home, he would assist his staff sweeping the bleachers, and stay until every chore was completed. My brother Mike and I often joined him which I truly enjoyed. We learned every job at the rink over the years from selling and taking tickets, selling popcorn, skate sharpening, sweeping, and eventually driving the Zamboni. This helped us develop strong work ethics as well as finding it entertaining while watching great HS hockey games. Dad would reward us for our hard work with rolls of tape and the occasional hockey stick.”

 Mike added, “I think my dad’s achievements were two- fold: One – that BIG was and still is one of the best Municipal Ice Arenas anywhere.  He and Andy took great pride in the quality of ice, the cleanliness of the arena inside and out. Two – and most of all, he loved getting to know as many people as he could that came thru the doors, be it local, out of state or abroad. He truly enjoyed people, and was genuinely interested in their lives.  My dad greeted everyone – he knew just about everyone who came thru the doors.”

 Mike provided several touching and telling comments from close friends of the family at Denny’s passing.

• Scott Anderson – Denny was “larger than Life” a true ambassador of hockey and figure skating at the Bloomington Ice garden, When I think of Denny I think of BIG, a great family man and a friend to too many people to count in a lifetime!
• Tim Cortes – Denny was perhaps the kindest man I ever known. The May family treated all their friend’s kids as family.
• Nick Sperides – Profound sadness. Denny was awesome. A true friend of the hockey community.
• Sully – Denny May was the Best of the Best always had time to talk to everyone and anyone and always had a big smile on his face to greet you. Great Man, great family. I will miss our conversations but have many great memories to reflect back.
• Jeff Jungwirth God Bless Denny! You were a great light for the children of Bloomington when they would walk through those BIG doors with wide eyes and big dreams of being the next Gordie Howe or Wayne Gretzky. A lot of great memories were made at the rink that “Denny” built.
• Tom Papke – Denny was truly & forever in the people mind will be “Mr. Hockey”. I worked at BIG a few years! Grew up in south Mpls. & he flooded my childhood rinks at Morris Park. Never lumpy, always perfect the man was the master indeed. I feel so fortunate to have known this man.  Thanks for the memories. 
• Pat Hall – the hockey world had lost another great teammate. Denny was a Bloomington icon! In fact Denny was “BIG”. Perhaps the city of Bloomington would consider changing the name of BIG to Denny May Arena.

Hockey World Connections

Denny was a great friend of the senior/adult hockey community and was a close friend to many well-known and prominent players and coaches.  I asked Dan and Mike to elaborate a bit.

Danny responded, “My dad had many connections to the hockey world. Over the years he made numerous friendships and was influential in many a players lives. He always stepped up to arrange ice time for hockey players or teams. He would always find a way to fit people into the ice schedule to help them out. He arranged ice time for the North Stars and Fighting Saints in the 70’s when they were unable to skate at the Met or Civic Center. There were many occasions where he would arrange ice time for players who were recovering from injuries, or allow the Bloomington teams to remain on the ice long after their rental time expired. I recall skating with Reed Larson in the prime of his NHL career as he was recovering from elbow surgery, one call to my dad and he set up the ice time. My dad never complained because he enjoyed helping them out, which ultimately would help lead to the players or teams success. He never was paid extra for the hours he spent doing this, he did it because he loved doing so.” 

Mike added by providing several names that Denny had close contact with including Reed Larson, Tom Chorske and others.  He noted that his dad also be-friended the likes of Kristi Yamaguchi/Bret Hedican and Jimmy/Johnny Johannson.

Rink 3 opening, November 1993. Denny May, Marv Jorde, Charlie McGlynn, Stan Hubbard, Mike May, John Johannson

Roger Buck, owner of Buck’s Unpainted Furniture and GM/Manager of perennial Minnesota State and National Senior A championship teams back in the days of full-contact senior hockey, said this about Denny, “Denny May touched so many lives in his years at the Bloomington Ice Garden. Of all the rinks I went to over the years in Minnesota and all over the country the BIG was by far the best run.  After a high school hockey game at 10:30 at night you would see Denny sweeping the stands even though many times he would be back at 5-6 am to open. He was not only an administrator to youth hockey but also always found time for adult and senior hockey.  Senior teams Buck’s and Parkers hosted both State and National Tournaments at BIG.  Tournaments are always tight budgeted so Denny rather than have additional city paid employees would come in and run the Zamboni so the tournaments could run efficiently. If you’re wondering about his popularity in the hockey world just try to walk around an event such as sectional high school playoffs at Mariucci with Denny.  It was like you were with the hottest of Hollywood stars…every 10 feet he was stopped for a chat with someone, and ALWAYS knew their kids names.  Our senior team was in Sun Valley, Idaho, and Denny had joined us on the trip as his son Chris was on the Buck’s team.  In the bar after the game numerous people were excited to see and talk to him.  God Bless, he was a Great American and friend to thousands.”

Tom Chorske, former Gopher hockey star, NHL veteran of 11 years, Hockey Broadcast Analyst and close friend of the May family provided this insight, “I met the May family when my original high school, Mpls West High was closed and I was transferred to Southwest High School my Sophomore year. In the Fall of 1982, as soon as we started skating for Captain’s Practice I found myself playing on a line with Chris May and we had instant chemistry. Soon we became great friends and I learned his Dad, Denny May, managed the BIG and any open ice could be skated on by us. It was a dream come true. Chris’s brothers were playing college hockey (Mike at Mankato State, Danny at UMD) so we would all skate together at times. I think Denny loved allowing us to skate and improve as well as knowing we were hanging out together, and he was making it happen. I spent so much time at the May’s house and at BIG that Denny was like a second father to me. Denny was not only the manager of BIG, but he also acted as an Ambassador for the arena. He always chatted with the groups who were renting ice and the fans who came through the doors. Denny was polite with the people he didn’t know but he “chirped” and barbed all of his friends and us boys as much as he could…he was a wise-ass in that regard. During the 80’s and 90’s many of the state’s biggest games and rivalries happened at BIG (Lake Conference games / Jefferson vs Kennedy) and Denny made sure they went off without a hitch. Denny was very proud of the BIG and of the team he had put together. It’s sad he’s gone.”

 Denny May – Legacy

Denny will have a lasting influence on many people.  I asked the family how they would want him to be remembered.

Danny provided this comment, “My dad will be remembered just as I would like him to be remembered. The most genuine, friendly, funny, hard-working, loyal, family man I have ever known. I never met a single person who didn’t adore my dad, and I never heard anyone say one bad thing about him. We should all be so wonderful!”

Mike added, “As far as his legacy, first and foremost, is his love of his family and always doing whatever he could to make our lives better.  Secondly BIG was truly his baby.  He nurtured BIG from the beginning, opening the arena and running it for 36 years.  That is where he had his biggest impact on the hockey community.  He would want to be remembered as a great guy that worked hard, ran his arena pretty much the way he wanted to, touched the lives of countless people, raised a great family and had a great life.”

Who Knew – Only a Few

Few people knew this about Denny May.

Danny revealed, “My dad was so transparent that I really think everyone knew the real Denny May, very few secrets. I guess the only thing some don’t know is that he was somewhat of a caveman. He viewed luxury or convenience as evil words. He refused to use the snow blower or dishwasher, and seemed to thrive on making things difficult for himself. He wouldn’t spend money on any luxury for my mom and him, at the same time never allowing his children or friends to spend any of our own money on anything. He would always pick up dinner checks, pay for our golf, or any other way he could spend his money on others, but never on himself.”

Mike added, “My dad made friendships and gave purpose to those in need he could sense it.  Yet he teased and joked with them too.  Andy Baltgalvis who took over as manager of BIG was a Vietnam Vet – who my dad gave a part time job at Braemar before he went to Vietnam and when he returned Denny gave him a home and purpose at BIG, Andy says he owes his career to my dad.”

Finally, Mike confided, “Even in my dad’s final days he was worried who would tell TJ Gannon, a boy with special needs whom he gave a job to at the rink. Back when my dad was at BIG, he listed TJ as an “assistant manager” in a nationwide book of some sort listing arenas – to say this made Tj’s day is an understatement.”

Celebration of Life

A Celebration of Life will be held in Denny’s honor on December 27, 2019 from 4-8pm at the Knights of Columbus on American Blvd in Bloomington.

All are welcome!

Here is an updated Obituary. 

Denny May (1936-2019)

Dennis May, (born 6/30/1936 – pasted 12/1/2019 at 83 years of age, wed Patricia Meder 10/8/1960)

Dennis died peacefully on 12/1/2019, in the presences of his loving family.  Preceded in death by his father George, Mother Francis and bother Tom.  Denny grew up overlooking Powderhorn Park and loved his “hood” until the day he died appropriately at Abbott NW Hospital.

He graduated from Central High in 1954, then joined the Marine Corps and spent two years risking his life as an artillery spotter at the beautiful Camp Pendleton during peace time. He then enrolled at the University of Minnesota for an extended version of bachelors in Park and Recreation, (4-year degree). This was interrupted by the birth of his first three children and working at local parks Sibley and Keewaydin where he developed friendships that lasted his lifetime. After graduation he was hired as the assistant manager of the newly opened Braemar Ice Arena in 1965.   Two years later he was promoted to the Manager and was even featured on the CBS Nightly News by the famous Hayward Hale Broun.  He left Braemar in 1970 when the City of Bloomington came calling.  He accepted the manager position at BIG (Bloomington Ice Garden), a new arena. He spent 36 wonderful years at BIG and formed countless friendships and made his indelible mark on the hockey community. 

In retirement he spent winters in Palm Springs with his lovely wife of nearly sixty years and spent summers enjoying golfing and biking the Minneapolis city lakes. He adored his two granddaughters and rarely missed any activity they were involved in, especially hockey.  He also loved his yard and kept it impeccable with flowers shrubs and a nicely groomed lawn.  Denny lived a wonderful life and enjoyed family ski trips, and going to his brothers’ home in the Hamptons.

Denny is survived in life by his wife Patricia, sons Mike (Jillian), Danny (Stacy), Chris (Ame) and his daughter Michelle Smith (Sandy).  Granddaughters Emma Smith and Alexis May. Please join his family for a Celebration of Life on December 27, 2019 from 4-8pm at the Knights of Columbus on American Blvd in Bloomington.  

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